Your Everyday Relationship Companion
Am I imagining it?
- Start on your own, or together
- No real name or address needed
- Your answers stored in the EU
- Your data is never sold
- No advertising cookies
- No subscription
What you get
Understand yourself, understand both of you, then work on it.
Your Individual Relationship Profile
Your needs, in your own order, and how much of each feels met today. Not the needs a relationship is supposed to have. Yours. The basis for the relationship you want.
Your Personalized
Couple Profile
This is where the magic happens. Your two profiles become one shared profile, yours alone: where you align and where you do not, where you misread each other, whose needs feel met today.
Your Relationship Toolbox
Coming soon. Built on your couple profile and what each of you needs. Tools for the hard parts and the good ones: what to bring up and how, which moments to protect, which to repair. For an ordinary Tuesday.
Wherever you are right now
Relationships often go through phases, and what your relationship needs can change along the way. lovlov is a tool designed to support you in any of these phases, on your own or with your partner if you both want to take part.
The Honeymoon
- Learn what matters most to each of us
- Talk about where we both want to go
- Build habits that keep us close
Everyday Happiness
- Keep the good things good
- Share the good moments
- Make time for each other in busy weeks
Reality Takes Over
- Stay close in everyday life
- Make room for us, not just the logistics
- Adjust when life changes around us
Something Is Off
- Check whether I am overreacting
- Understand what has changed between us
- Bring up the little things that bother me
Growing Distant
- Stop having the same argument
- Feel seen by my partner again
- Find out where we misread each other
Stay or Go
- Understand what is really going on
- Find a way forward together
- See whether this still fits the life I want
These are situations you may recognize, not a fixed sequence.
How it works
It can be hard to make sense of your relationship when you are in the middle of it.
We start with what each of you brings, and what takes shape between you.
Next, we are building the tools to live the relationship you want.
01The Test Your personalities: what each of you brings to the table
You answer for yourself, and what you think your partner would say. Five to fifteen minutes, as deep as you want. Then you see:
- What matters most to you
- How much of it actually reaches you
- Where something you care about is not arriving
- And what you assume about your partner, kept apart from your own answers
02The Profile Where the two of you align, and where you misread each other
Your partner answers separately. Nothing crosses over until you have both answered and released it. Then you see:
- Where the two of you work well
- Where your partner is doing better than you thought
- Where you thought they were fine and they are not
- Where you misjudged what matters to them
03The Toolbox Coming soon: your safe space and toolbox for your relationship
- The past. The moments worth keeping, saved on the day and easy to find
- The now. The argument you keep having, one good thing to do today, and the words for what you cannot say
- The future. The life you actually want, and where the relationship sits in it. No verdict, no rush
One place to bring everything that matters, and to grow through it as a couple.
Why we built it
We built lovlov for the part nobody teaches.
For you on your own, or for the two of you.
Nobody ever taught us how our most important relationships actually work.
What makes a relationship good, and what keeps it going when life pulls at it? Nobody sits us down for that. So we do what we know, and it came from somewhere we never chose.
Then, for most of us, time does its work. The same conversation comes back wearing different clothes, and our strategies stop working.
None of that is a verdict. So we are building lovlov: a safe, private place for your relationship. It starts with the test, and the tools to get through what it brings come next. The good and the hard, your shared past, the now, what comes next.
What we believe
Four things we hold to.
Relationships are a living system
People change, and life keeps bringing something new. Keeping a relationship good is ongoing work, and it takes skill and tools.
Our individual needs are at the core
Each of you brings your own needs. How they fit together, and what room they get, shapes how well it works for both of you.
The pattern, not the person
Every couple falls into patterns, helpful and harmful. Seeing them, and learning to work with them, is what keeps it good.
Confidential, private and fair
What goes on in your relationship is among the most private things about you. That is why we do not want your real name, work without advertising cookies, and never sell your data or share it with advertisers. And we believe in fair, transparent pricing: no subscription, you only pay when you choose to.
What it costs
Free to begin.
Go deeper when you are ready to invest in the most important relationship of your life.
The Test
Free to start. Deeper tests from €4.99. One payment, no subscription.
- What matters to each of you
- Where you misread each other
For those who want to know where they really stand, and what to work on.
Take the TestComing next: the Toolbox. Everyday tools for the two of you, on credits, never a subscription. Join Alpha as an early tester →
Our privacy promise for you and your data
The data we collect is there to help you with your relationship. We never sell it, and we never share it with advertisers.
Data minimization
Less data, less risk, more privacy
- No real name, no address needed
- No ads, no ad cookies, no tracking cookies
- Payment data stays with our payment provider
- Contact details used only when needed, never for ads
Data protection
Built to EU GDPR standards
- Specially protected under EU law (Art. 9 GDPR)
- Your data is stored encrypted
- Stored on servers in the EU
- Your data is never sold and never shared with advertisers
Data control
100% control over your data
- Delete your relationship data any time
- Access your data any time
- Choose what you share with your partner
Who is behind it
I am building lovlov because I was missing something to help me nurture my relationship in everyday life.
Over the last ten years, health has become my passion, and for me that includes how happy we are with our lives. It took me far too long to understand how much our closest relationships matter to that.
The challenges a relationship brings have often overwhelmed me, and I still often reach my limits. Looking back, that is no surprise: I never learned what a great relationship would look like for me, how to be a good partner, or even how to handle the challenges that come up over time. Alongside couples therapy, I needed something I could turn to every day, in the ordinary moments when things get hard. That is what I am building with lovlov.
I have been building companies for eighteen years, and I have made more than fifty angel investments, many of them in health. I believe healthy relationships are the foundation of a good life for everyone, whether with family, children, a partner or friends.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
What is lovlov?
lovlov is a private relationship companion for everyday life. It starts with a test that shows what matters to each of you and where you misread each other. Tools for the everyday challenges of a relationship are coming soon. lovlov is private by design and built around your individual needs.
What do I get from the lovlov test?
You get your Individual Relationship Profile: what matters most to you right now, and how much of it feels met. Your partner can get one too. When you both agree to share, you also get your Personalized Couple Profile. It shows your blind spots, what you assumed about each other next to what each of you actually said, so you stop guessing and see what is worth looking at together.
What does the lovlov Toolbox do?
The lovlov Toolbox is coming soon. It will be your relationship's everyday space, for what you share, what is happening now, and where you are heading:
- The past: the moments worth keeping, saved on the day and easy to find
- The now: the argument you keep having, one good thing to do today, and the words for what you cannot say
- The future: the life you actually want, and where your relationship sits in it
You will work on what matters to both of you, from feeling close again to finding a way forward together.
Can I use lovlov without my partner?
Yes. lovlov is designed to work without your partner. You take the test on your own, and your profile is ready when you finish. You can bring your partner in whenever you both feel ready; your partner answers separately, through a link, without an account or a real name.
How long does the lovlov test take?
Plan 5 to 15 minutes for the lovlov test, depending on the depth you choose. You answer for yourself and estimate how your partner would answer. Your own profile is ready when you finish.
How much does the lovlov test cost?
The lovlov Basic test is free, alone or together. Balanced and Deep cover more of your needs and are a one-time payment, never a subscription:
- Balanced: €4.99 solo, €7.99 as a couple
- Deep: €7.99 solo, €9.99 as a couple
Going deeper later costs only the difference:
- Basic to Balanced: €4.99 solo, €7.99 as a couple
- Balanced to Deep: €3.00 solo, €2.00 as a couple
- Basic to Deep: €7.99 solo, €9.99 as a couple
- Solo to couple: €3.00 for Balanced, €2.00 for Deep
Can my partner see my answers?
lovlov shares your ratings with your partner only after you have both finished and chosen to share. The shared profile compares your ratings on shared topics and, if you both chose to guess each other, your guesses about each other. Either of you can end sharing at any time, which removes it for both. Your own profiles stay available.
Is lovlov private?
lovlov does not need your real name or address for the test. Your answers are stored encrypted on servers in the EU. Your data is never sold and never shared with advertisers. You can delete your relationship data at any time.
Can I delete my data?
Yes. You can delete your relationship data at any time. Deleting removes every answer you gave and what you guessed about your partner, and cancels any open invitation to your partner. We only keep what the law requires, like your invoice for 8 years.
Is lovlov therapy?
No. lovlov is not therapy and not a replacement for it, though it works alongside it. lovlov is not designed for acute crises and does not replace an emergency service. If you feel unsafe or are in danger, please call 112 or 110 now. To talk to someone, free and anonymous, day and night: TelefonSeelsorge 0800 111 0 111, 0800 111 0 222 or 116 123. Violence in your relationship: Hilfetelefon 116 016. Outside Germany, our Help in a crisis page lists numbers for your country.
Who is behind lovlov?
lovlov was founded by Eric Ebert in Berlin, Germany. Eric has built companies for eighteen years and started lovlov because he was missing something to help him nurture his own relationship in everyday life. The company behind lovlov is Alpha 360 Omega GmbH, based in Berlin. Full company details are in our imprint.
What is lovlov's vision?
lovlov's vision is a world where everyone can live their best life through loving and being loved in their closest relationships.
What is lovlov's mission?
lovlov's mission is to help people everywhere build the relationships they want and deserve, so they can live their best lives.
- It doesn't replace therapy or a diagnosis.
- It isn't built for acute crises or trauma.
- It's not a medical device.
lovlov is not designed for acute crises. It does not replace therapy or an emergency service. If you feel unsafe or are in danger, please call 112 now. To talk to someone, free and anonymous, day and night: TelefonSeelsorge 0800 111 0 111. All help numbers →
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